no problemo! If the resos look good, but you're not sure.. take the batters off and tap the resos with your finger, and see how good the tone is that comes from them. that's how I usually do it, though I'm not sure it has any value:P
as for dampening, it all depends on the sound you're after! I don't like those e-rings or remO's, because they take away waaay to much tone for my taste. I don't mind putting a little tape or moongel on there though.
As far as head selection goes, I think you'll be good with a set of clear emperors with the stock reso's, and just go from there.
good luck!
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